4 march 2010

JUST A THOUGHT
I don't understand why people are so hypocrite. Why they prohibit others to do something which they themselves would try out if given chance, say for eg going to a strip club. It is, indeed, very difficult to understand a human mind and how it works, very complex and yet intriguing. Nobody is able to derive conclusions or set a standard theory about it, showing its diversified nature. Is it jealousy or true concern on the part of our so called "loved ones" to shun us from doing something unconventional. Our lives are woven around them, an emotional bonding, which leaves one impaired if its not there, atleast I think so . But does it give us any strength to try the extraordinary or takes away the chance , a moment of our own personal growth. And that too just because of their conventional preconcieved opinions. Is it right to categorize things as right or wrong based on their prejudices or to try out and then decide for oneself?? The question remains unanswered. Why we deprive our loved ones a chance to explore their rights and wrongs on their own. Why people renounce a family member if he/she does something outrageous, unconventional, against the "society norms"??? The thought bothers me. When would we actually grow up, and like mature people give each other a chance to discover our own rights and wrongs. Even our scriptures say so, " There is nothing as good or bad on this earth. Its the intention behind them which defines them." Why can't we simply follow the rule and let ourselves and others dive into the pleasure of doing something which we have abstained ourselves from doing for long or have surreptitiously done it sometime.Our basic worry is the rejection, being disowned by society, or family in general. Is it worth brooding over??? Is it so difficult to stay away from all but to lead our lives on our own terms?? Even I am yet to explore it. Deep Sighhhh.......!!!!!